We all know that so it keeps it cool — legit. As long as you have the same intentions and all involved parties are clear on the relationship — fuck on.
Stay horny my friends…. I've been told that I have sex like a man in the sense that I 1 don't get attached, 2 don't get clingy, and 3 don't expect it to lead to anything significant. Call me a freak, but it's definitely a lot more fun than getting involved in the drama and complications that most girls find themselves in.
I have a few guys on rotation but they are all aware that I'm not being exclusive with any of them. One demanded that we start a monogamous fuck buddy sort of deal but… in order to avoid the possibility of attachment… I had to kick that one to the curb.
People can only really be fuck buddies without complication of they have absolutely NO interest in a relationship — and I find that not limiting yourself to just one buddy definitely helps avoid the risk of getting emotionally involved.
Don't forget to use a condom, people! Lisa, What if I am in a relationship and just want to learn your recipe for chocolate chip cookies? What do you call a relationship that people just have fun with each other without sex?
Friendship does not work between a man and a woman unless one of them is extremelly unatractive. I have had the same fuck buddy for 5 years. Is that normal to have a fuck buddy for that long? Why do guys do this? This was really helpful. I initiated a NSA encounter off craigslist and picked a perfect guy. I posted the add, we exchanged emails and pics and decided to meet up. It was great sex and I was good to go and he inquired about meeting up again.
My only issue is that this guy is a total catch so I was paranoid and nervous at first. I want to keep having NSA sex though so even though we hooked up 2 days ago and I want to have sex again…..
I'm gonna hold off. What do you males think? Help a girl out! Here's some advice from a female cougar: Back off him and stay in control. Post another ad for a younger, hotter version of him and then fuck THAT guy. I don't really do it either, BUT there is a difference between having no feelings and not having relationship type feelings….
I have come around on this. I was married and thought fidelity was essential. It is when you have children, stay together because they need a family. But if there are no kids involved, I say enjoy yourself.
Don't be devastated if your guy 'cheats'. And enjoy yourself…Have a lover. I find that I feel much more secure in my relationship when I don't even think about what my partner does while he's out of my sight. I always know when he has strayed, you can practically smell it on them not literally but you girls know what I mean. I just go off and do my own thing, then I figure, hey tat for tat, if you are good at enjoying sex then it doesn't matter who you are with as long as everyone wears a condom.
I know this sounds awful, I would have disagreed not so long ago, but life is too short to be all Victorian about it. It's one of the worst ideas in the world honestly…. It's also very dehumanizing because part of what makes sex so great is those feelings where "no feelings" is technically impossible and makes you sound like your irresponsible… Seriously why go through all that shit when you can just wisely pick a man or a woman to be your girlfriend or boyfriend?
A realtionship will always have some kind of string attached to it if you actually believe they don't, you obviously think more with your fun parts then with your head. It's counter-productive as hell too. People have no confidence these days….
I think the most important thing is keeping your intentions clear and if feelings do develop, you must admit it right away before it gets too intense. My problem is that if you are just fuck buddies but you really enjoy hanging out with each other as well, then it can become even more difficult to remove emotions because you have friendship and sex combined.
Maybe the friendship thing just doesn't work? Maybe if I fuck somebody regularly I shouldn't hang out with them? Idk but it's way too confusing. This article epitomizes why feminism has been the most amazing gift ever for single dudes!
Now I get cheap easy access to women's bodies ad I get to hang with the bros whenever i want. I still get my career, hobbies and everyhting men had before feminism, but now I get to have lots of sex with lots of different women and dont hae to feel or do a dam thing for any of them!
You ar eth ebest Lisa! I wish more women were like you! There are many of us and our numbers are growing! Thanks feminism, for allowing us to always upgrade to a bigger, longer, fatter, more skilled penis and dump fat, drama-wallowing manginas when they start to age and turn flaccid and whiny, which they always do.
Feminism is to thank for no more beer fetching, no more cleaning and cooking, no more bitching, no more fat guys, and greater access to bigger, better dick. And now, off to go get laid and do that faster and more successfully than James will tonight, because the market belongs to buyer who has the vagina.
Hahaha, she said as she said goodbye to the 19 year old she just banged and calls "pizza" — because he's in, he fills he up, and then HE'S GONE. A lot of you men don't realize some women would rather you begone after busting that nut. Who needs the awkwardness? This idea that no woman can do NSA sex makes me lawl. Had a couple of male buddies go all sharron stone. Ladies chose the right man… married… with as much to lose as you. Sex is the aim without emotional blackmail.
You have control and you are queen of your time and emotions. He needs to know nothing he puts out and buggers off… you get a good nights sleep or hours of fun with yourself or someone else. Never be afraid to say no… if you are move on quickly. Men need affection, let him get it from his mom. A fuck buddy situation works both ways equally right and no emotional involvement.
If you promise never to give a shit stand by it otherwise they come on sites like this and bleet how badly off they were. They are a dick all you want or need in hopefully working order. Just my opinion mwah peeps x. I love this article! I wish i've read this a year ago! I dont know if i should ignore him till he stops texting and calling me, should i unfriend him on FB without letting him know or should i let him know how i feel and tell him that i need to cut off any type of communication so that i can move on: I have read that women sometimes bond chemically with a guy by kissing, so I guess it just depends on the individual person and how she or he handles the situation.
I think I would have to like the person as it's not very safe to have sex with strangers these days.
I guess sex could be compared to food. If you want a steady diet of the same foods all the time, then you would want a relationship. But if you wanted something different infrequently, you might want a NSA arrangement. A few acquaintances have had NSA sex and also sex within a friendship. I think rules are good.
I would be open to such a situation as I was reared to conform to the religious norm regarding sex and now I have found my own beliefs. You will hurt yourself emotionally if you are more involved in the arrangement compared to the other person, so take it easy and take care of yourself. I have had people all my life tell me I have to get married or have a boyfriend who loves me, but maybe I'm not ready for that.
Good luck to all of you and enjoy life and expressing yourself sexually. You only get one shot in life, so don't let anyone tell you what to do. And respect the other person and try not to hurt her or him. He cuddles w me and we have the best sex. Also we hang out every day and do things together like a couple. We go bowling, go out to eat, cook together, hang with my friends.
He wants a threesome. He is honest with me and tells me everything. I am on a NSA right now, its been 3mos. We have agreed to have this kind of relationship. He took time to know me before jumping into it. After all, it is all about sex satisfaction. I as a woman, being aware that I could be vulnerable into getting attached. Somehow, this man I am going out with I have to say, confuses me. We are passionately kissing and the sex is mind blowing!
He however, kinda freaks me, the way He caresses me, or he cuddles me,… I have even opened up to him that we kind of doing it often and a his responses to it sounds like defensive and continuous to have a scheduled meet up.
Well, sex is good with him I cannot just say NO! He has been cancelling his training on that day just to spend time with me. He makes me wonder all the time, he apologized whenever he couldn't communicate to me in daily basis which it wont matter to me really. Men can really make women confuse on this. Until, recently, I received a message from him saying, " He desires me"…I took it us probably that time alone. He sends messages of sugarcoatings and I have told him to stop it as it makes me uncomfortable.
He had once said that I deserve it on every level.. I am still seeing him, as he is wonderful…I don't know, I should either ask him directly what He means of his messages.
I find he is more open on messages but once He is with me, I can only feel it with his caresses,kisses and when He stares at me! Your email address will not be published. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. Find the Right Girl Some girls are simply not wired to function in this type of relationship. Rules of Engagement Entering into a NSA situation haphazardly can result in a messy and disastrous combination of hurt feelings, abrupt cessation of sex, or worse yet, a one-sided desire for a relationship.
Your rules of engagement should include agreement on several key issues: Intention — If either of you want it to even possibly lead to a relationship, that is a pretty good indicator that this NSA situation is going to get complicated quickly.
Frequency — The greater the frequency of your hook-ups, the greater the possibility that attachments will develop. In an NSA situation, it is better to keep the contact more sporadic and infrequent than getting a regular schedule or seeing each other multiple times a week because that quickly leads to one or both of you having expectations, which again can muddy the waters.
How do you two proceed if one or the other or both of you begin seriously dating someone else? Does the NSA action continue? Agreement on these elements of the NSA set up can help you avoid disaster. Sometimes Things Get a Little Complicated It is likely that one or both of you will develop an attachment issue. April 19, at 1: April 19, at 2: March 23, at Modern technology and use of gadgets has made it very easy to interact with new people. There are thousands of dating websites that can help connect you with a potential new partner - someone whom you like and someone who is ready to accept you just the way you are.
NSAhookup is one such website that provides singles with a platform to find and date new people. However, what makes NSAhookup stand out from the plethora of dating websites is that it is a No Strings Attached dating website. This means that the people you meet here are willing to be casual partners and you do not have to worry about the emotional baggage that a romantic relationship usually entails.
So, if you are a female who wants to play around with someone new without any emotional attachment, then the following tips will help you to start your journey at NSAhookup. Most of the girls love the idea of having someone over and talk about things which are hard to swallow for them.
These girls love to have a shoulder to cry on and talk. This is natural but to be very honest, no strings attached relationships do not demand any emotional contact with each other.
This is the kind of relationship where two strangers meet for a fun time and leave. So, to all the girls who have never been into this kind of relationship, remember this rule number 1. Do not involve yourself emotionally with the other person. Because otherwise, you will get hurt. One thing which I would suggest to the people involved in this relationship is to be honest. Remember, honesty is always the best policy. Just be honest about yourself and do not ever lie in this relationship.
Let your partner know what you feel by being truthful. Just be confident and comfortable around your partner and say if you feel like saying something. There is no point in hiding anything because somehow your partner will know, so there is absolutely no need to lie. One of the most important aspects of a successful no strings attached relationship for girls is to have protected sex with your partner. If you are a beginner and do not know how this works, then feel free to talk to your partner and get some background knowledge before getting yourself into something that you might regret later....
It links you up to singles who are up for sex in your postcode, but remember — the more info you put on about yourself, the more you can see about others. Definitely helps you on your no strings sex quest, but be warned — the men we came across were of a lower quality than Blendr.
An app that keeps your naked photos, belfies and sex videos safe and secure. You can only access the files if you AND the other person s involved enter passwords. The idea behind this is that only you and your partner can watch your previous bedroom antics together. An Android app that turns your phone into a vibrator. It can be controlled remotely by your partner, making even long distance hook-ups possible.
Great if you want to find no strings sex right now. Always wanted a threesome but never known where to find that special extra someone? This app has the ease of tinder, and much like that, most of the fun lies in the swiping.
This app combines selfie-taking with Netflix. What more could we possibly want in ? If a girl likes both offerings, she fires back a selfie mimicking his, opening up a chat. Who knew taking selfies while watching Netflix could lead to so much fun? This is the app to satisfy all your kinks and fetishes. Getting beyond the small talk it gets down to the nitty-gritty of what you want, what you really, really want.
I guess the question is, how much you value your kink? Bumble calls itself a feminist app; for any matches that happen, the woman must start the chat within 24 hours, or it disappears. Pressure is high with that time limit — but it helps you quickly figure out whether that guy is worth the initial message.
Wingman lets you connect with others on your flight, giving you the chance for a sneaky in-flight get-together. We love the news and events updates too.
So, if you are a female who wants to play around with someone new without any emotional attachment, then the following tips will help you to start your journey at NSAhookup. Most of the girls love the idea of having someone over and talk about things which are hard to swallow for them. These girls love to have a shoulder to cry on and talk. This is natural but to be very honest, no strings attached relationships do not demand any emotional contact with each other. This is the kind of relationship where two strangers meet for a fun time and leave.
So, to all the girls who have never been into this kind of relationship, remember this rule number 1. Do not involve yourself emotionally with the other person. Because otherwise, you will get hurt. One thing which I would suggest to the people involved in this relationship is to be honest. Remember, honesty is always the best policy. Just be honest about yourself and do not ever lie in this relationship. Let your partner know what you feel by being truthful.
Just be confident and comfortable around your partner and say if you feel like saying something. There is no point in hiding anything because somehow your partner will know, so there is absolutely no need to lie. One of the most important aspects of a successful no strings attached relationship for girls is to have protected sex with your partner.
If you are a beginner and do not know how this works, then feel free to talk to your partner and get some background knowledge before getting yourself into something that you might regret later. Since this is all fun and games where you just have a nice time with your partner, you must use all the precautionary measures before you both lose hold of yourselves. You do not want any sort of troubles from a casual date, so you need to make sure that you are having protected sex.
If you think that protected sex is not your thing, then it is better to only indulge in a nice conversation with your partner. Most of the girls who are new to such relationships sleep with random guys. I am not insulting anyone by saying this, but it is true because most of the girls are not aware of what they are doing.